5 Lessons The Coldest Christmas Holiday Has Taught Us in 2017

It’s never been this friggin cold over Christmas in my memory! With temperatures dropping to -28c and windchill to -40c, it would have been a good holiday to stay cosey by the fire with a warm drink, but we didn’t. We spent a lot of time outdoors and the cold granted us a few lessons. It taught us, among many other things, these five little holiday lessons.

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The Christmas Day Family Hike has become a core family tradition for us and every year is seems to get bigger. This year was by far the biggest AND the coldest! Next year’s will be bigger but hopefully warmer!

Lesson 1: when it’s really cold, the crowds stay indoors, leaving you lots of room to enjoy places like “Patinage en Forët.”

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Patinage en Forêt (Skating in the Forest), with Danelle and Drew on Christmas Eve. 

It was Christmas Eve and it was almost as if we owned the skating trail, all 3km of it! Only a handful of others braved the cold to be on the circuit.

2017-12-24 Drew and Danelle Patinage en Forêt 01-2164We lapped the circuit several times, loving the sensation of skating in amongst the trees, smelling the pine, hearing the crunch of skate blades on ice, and the sound of the wind through the tree branches–which randomly released clouds of snow on us.

We had enough crowd-free space to attempt skate dancing and backward skating! We returned to the cabin with lots of snow on our bums and knees—proof of our not so perfect ice skating prowess!

Lesson 2: when it is “Too Cold To Snow,” it can! It was -21c in Gatineau Park on Christmas Day, and with windchill it felt like -38c! I have often heard that, when it is this cold, it is too cold to for heavy snow–and generally the statement has held true for me, but not on this Christmas holiday.

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It was snowing hard on Christmas Day, and the wind was strong, making it feel like -38c in Gatineau Park. A gust releases an extra burtst of snow from the trees onto Drew and Danelle at the trailhead.

Just how cold was it?

  • Crisp?
  • Brisk?
  • Raw?
  • Hard?
  • Biting?
  • Bleak?

It was all of the above and more…

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How cold was it? December 27th: hair-and-eye-lashes-turning-white-with-hoar-frost cold!
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How cold was it? Christmas Day it was teeth-baring and teeth-chattering cold!
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How cold was it? Boxing Day: white-clouds-of-breath cold!
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How cold was it? Christmas Day it was body-shivering, gotta-huddle-close cold!

Lesson 3: if you defy the cold, Nature will reward you with Its breath-taking gifts!

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Fungus on this stump cups mounds of powder snow.

Lesson 4: when it’s really cold, acts of play and of love are all that warmer!  

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Mike and Elly, so much warmth together!
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There was hiking, skiing, and snowshoeing over the holidays….
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Maurice demonstrating the Euro-soccer dive!
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Drew looking like an authentic National Geographic pro photographer–getting down in the snow to get a perfect shot!
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Family on a mission–the attack is on!
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Standing in a foot and a half of new “Utah Powder”
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Whispering secrets?
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Maurice bounding along in his raquettes (snow shoes)!
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Lots of climbing on the way to Lac Fortune–a very metaphoric sort of name for our hiking destination!
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Debbie, our winter cardinal!

Lesson 5: family is the depth, the stength, and the reason this cold Christmas Holiday was the warmest and best one ever!

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I write about the small and significant moments that shape our lives — family stories, friendships, personal observations, lessons learned, and the quiet experiences that often matter most. This site is a place to reflect on life with curiosity, gratitude, and honesty: the challenges that strengthen us, the people who influence us, and the everyday moments that deserve to be remembered. From cycling journeys and travel to conversations with grandchildren and reflections on resilience, I hope these writings encourage thoughtful living and deeper connection. My mission is to build a family legacy of strength, generosity, and steady & trustworthy leadership — embracing physical challenges, growing continuously, and encouraging my family and community to rise to theirs. I believe a meaningful life is built not only through accomplishments, but through consistency, kindness, endurance, and the example we leave for others.

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